‘Ugly' shirt, beautiful gift
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" is an adage that describes my favorite Christmas present. It arrived on Christmas morning 16 years ago and has been worn every holiday since.
Sam, my oldest at 15, had just earned his driver's license and was taking his younger brother, Joe, to the mall for the first time on their own to purchase gifts.
They found a kiosk that sold Christmas items and while there bought me a black gaudy sweatshirt depicting a puff-painted Christmas tree laden with "rhinestone" garland and ornaments. The addition of the same materials along the collar and sleeves just added to the design.
They were really happy with their choice that morning, and I immediately donned the new purchase and wore it proudly the rest of the day.
Well, little did the boys realize that I would be wearing that same shirt for every following Christmas. The boys aren't nearly as thrilled about the present as they were years ago, but it will always remind me of a time when they were young and really felt they had chosen the perfect present.
The item has become a legend in our family as my brother, VJ, has even included it in one of his speeches. As my sisters say, "It's hard to tell what year it is because Barbara is always wearing the same shirt."
Our family likes competition, and this year we are having an ugly sweater/shirt contest. An email to the family members about the contest contains the line, "We know who's going to win, but the rest of us can still compete for second and third place."
I'll just have you know that that "ugly sweatshirt" is still one of the prettiest things I own. When I die, I plan to be buried in it; I don't want any family members fighting over such a priceless gift!
-Barbara Kenton, Rapid City
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